When I got married 30 years ago, my parents helped me with planning the entire day. When my daughter told me several months ago that she was getting married, I got excited because I wanted to help her plan her special day too. She told me that the two of them were planning a very small affair, and most details had been taken care of already. It is her day, so I kept my heartbreak to myself. She must have known though, because she sent me an email with wedding photographer essex in the subject line.